Why men have 'Sister Mary Amaka' as wives at home, only to keep disturbing Caro in town and keeping Suzzie as side chic on the tarmac - Tosin Ayo

Dear woman,

Be sure you ask questions from your man before saying 'I do'. Be sure you are the kind of woman of your man's dreams and sexual fantasy.


Enquire about his sexual preferences, fatalistic desires and extreme amorous orientation. Know his 'spec' and sexual attraction.


Be sure he isn't just getting married to you, so he could have a wife material at home in a bid to satisfy the societal expectation of an ideal wife and nothing else.


Be sure you are who he wants and not just what he got. Be sure he truly wants you and would want you for a long time.


The truth is that many men are attracted to the weird, ratchet, sexy, bitchy, dirty, crazy, indecent hoes, but since the family and the society stipulate that a wife material must be responsible or appear so, quiet, serene, decent, Godly, churchy, and homely, they therefore elect to marry the latter, in order to fulfill societal and family criteria.

This is exactly why men have 'Sister Mary Amaka' as wives at home, only to keep disturbing Caro in town and keeping Suzzie as side chic on the tarmac.

For those genuinely committed to living a life of perverted sexuality and pornographic posturing, their ideal sex partner is the unconventional woman capable of the very bizarre which the wife would neither allow nor explore. The other woman naturally fills this vacuum.

This is why many men keep their wives at home as pieces of archaic furniture undeserving of appreciation and constant communication. They simply don't love the type of woman they married. They didn't marry their kind of women, so everybody else can admire them, especially because they are not their type.


They simply marry a wife material at home, in order to moonlight with bed materials on the street.


If only men will be true to themselves to reveal the exact type of bitches they truly like and desperately desire, but are incapable of marrying owing entirely to societal stereotypes and family prescription.


Sadly, there are many men who marry those they do not truly love, but those they can keep.


The truth is no matter how much you shy away from the truth, it is what it is. Men will continually cheat on the good woman with the bad woman. They will never explore their freaky sides with their wives, but with their Bush meat. This is especially because they either married their wives for the wrong reasons or married their untrue choices.


Be sure your man is not just marrying you in order to fulfil a certain societal criterion, have good quality kids, have great maternal example and because he needs a good mother for his children.


For many are married, few are very sexually excited about their spouses on the long run. Life is too short to be used to fulfill another person's selfish purpose. Half a word...


-Word Bank.