For as many of you women considering giving the Ex who dumped you to date or marry another, a chance after being dumped by their first choice... This is my take:
1. Date when you are ready, not when you are lonely.
2. Okafor's law is very real, don't taste If you don't desire a re-taste.
3. Whether we offer sacrifices or go metaphysical, no one can change predestination. The one who will die of cough won't die in an accident.
4. You don't get a second chance to make a First impression. When the protracted infatuation fades off, you will remember that you were his true second choice for a reason. Once beaten, forever shy. Don't ever forget this.
5. The one who comes to us as priority after being rejected by his first choice seeks emotional survival, not genuine affection. He deserves empathy, not sincere love. We all wish to have another bite on our past victims, not another chance to keep them. There is a reason you were never a first choice. It doesn't often go away. After the bite, comes the truth. We will soon flee.
6. If he did it before, he can do it again. People don't truly change, they only stop pretending.
7. Dating an Ex is like giving your killer a second chance to take a missed shot and hoping he doesn't shoot again.
8. Love is a risk as well as life. Those who take it, make it.
9. There is no art to find the mind's expression on the face. Even the devil does not know the intention of man.
10. Advice is that decision we wish to take, but which we hope we didn't, thus, we seek validation from others as a basis for that which we desire. The choice is entirely yours to take. If you must date him again, prepare for the worse. It will take time. Give the time some time.
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