South- South men and their see through lace that allows us to see their white singlet and hairy chests

Please my advise to South South men and some South East men.
Please you don't have to wear the same lace with your wife, the head gear and cap can be the same, but the main outfit can different.
Please tell your wives on your wedding day that you don't want to look ugly, while she looks nice and sweet.
Tell her you dont want to wear a lace we can see your white singlet.
Tell her you dont want to do the regular flowery pattern on the net/lace of the outfit.


Advise her that there are really lovely nice materials that men can use and won't look like a caricature.


Thanks and God bless as you agree in advance.