I will continue to say NO to submission! don't be worried for me.. You have too many problems already in your life.. Face it! -Marian Nwaokolo

"You see ehn.. Never listen to anybody and end up settling for less.. The people telling you to bring down your standards just so you can "see husband" don't mean well.. You shouldn't go lower than you are or reduce your standards for any man. Any man that feels threatened by your standards or financial status is definitely not the man for you! 

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My Heart is broken!


A middle aged patient came in and after we finished everything she came for, she received a call from her husband who she referred to as "sir".. I didn't read meaning because it's not my business how anyone chooses to address his or her spouse.
But after talking to him, she was close to tears and started talking about the man! I wouldn't have believed in my wildest dream, that such beautifully dressed woman was going through such.

When she buys him gifts, he'll be like "ehn just drop it on the bed", the dining table and flower vases in the house, he told her to remove the nonsense, whereas a neighbour came in and admired it so much. The curtains in the house, his lovely T-shirts she got him, he never acts surprised or thankful! She prepares his best food, still this man won't appreciate. When he wants to eat and there's no spoon, he'll send his daughter to call her to get him spoon.. Gosh! I'm weak!.. This man installed trackers on her phones to monitor her movements. He polices every ten kobo she spends.


This is a woman who was a proprietor before 30 years old and even bought a car for herself, but they told her to sell it off, else she won't get a spouse!
I will continue to have a problem with the way many of our sons are raised!
I will continue to say NO to submission!


No, don't be worried for me.. You have too many problems already in your life.. Face it!
Any man that needs submission has ulterior motive, yes! Why would you want someone to be beneath you?? Someone who is supposed to be your best friend?? Nonsense! If you want submission so bad, get a puppy!


The marriages that are having issues mostly, is the master-slave relationship!
What is wrong with partnership?.. What is wrong in a man seeing marriage as an important institution just as women see it. This woman was on three days dry fasting, when the man noticed she wasn't eating, he asked and she told him, the next thing he said was "you are deceiving yourself, this one you are doing is not in the Quran, you are just disturbing God"... WTF???
A woman drops her religion, drops her identity, drops her standard, surrenders her properties because of marriage?????
Her friends can't even visit her!
How can your spouse prefer to be with strangers than be with you???
I'm so sick right now!"