Single Mothers do not need your pity, shove the oohs! and arrrghhs! back in your mouths

I don't know why people always say being a mother out of wedlock is a mistake...
They are like eeya, it's a mistake abi???

I'm like Hell NO!!! Having sex was a glad choice, getting pregnant was a mistake, keeping the baby is another choice.

Most women choose to have sex, some get pregnant without planning to(you are like oh! F**k !). Then deciding to keep the baby is a choice, so also deciding to remove the pregnancy is a choice.

Next time you see a happy single mother like me, remember that single mother out there decided to keep the baby.... we do not need your pity, keep it for yourself and probably use it to mend where your life needs patching.

Life is about choices!!!!

( I have never had this experience before though, I wouldn't even give a room for it)